1. interested in gruesome subjects: showing a strong interest in unpleasant or gloomy subjects such as death, murder, or accidents
2. grisly: inspiring disgust or horror (Encarta)
When we engage in morbid reflection, we are engaging in mental grave robbing. Resentments are powerful things, a lot like horror movie zombies. No matter what you do, until they are dealt with permanently, they will keep coming back, inflicting more pain and just like the movie zombies, resentments move slowly but steadily. It starts when we begin rehashing an old hurt, infusing it with new life, often without even remembering how we started down this path of thought in the first place. Living on the Spiritual Basis means living in the present. This does not mean we shut the door on the past or ignore it. Living on the New Basis, the basis of trusting and relying on God, we place the past in it’s proper perspective, utilizing it when it can help others, the demonstration of God‘s love and forgiveness in our life. To be free we must forgive, in thought and deed, those who have trespassed against us and we have asked for and received forgiveness for all our trespasses, real and imagined.
Mental grave robbing, morbid reflection, happens when we backtrack on forgiveness, our own or others, it matters not. When we do this, it is akin to scratching the scab off a wound to see how it is healing. The outcome is always the same, regardless of how old the injury is, fresh blood flows and the healing process must start over. As the Great Carpenter taught… let the dead bury the dead (Matthew 8:22), leave resentments and old hurts in the ground of forgiveness, lest you unearth a zombie and we all know how hard they are to evict once they take up residence.
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