Mourning those who have passed beyond our sight is one
thing, but what of the hidden things we mourn? Lamenting lost or missed
opportunities, those “if I only would have” moments when we fantasize what our
lives would have been like if we had acted or chosen differently. "If I
were only (fill in the blank) years younger", “If I didn’t have kids”
(this doesn’t mean we don’t love our children or in any way wish they were
gone, only fantasizing what life would/could have been like without that
responsibility) there are many more. Those “What if” moments, we all have them,
and they pave the way into reflecting morbidly which is spiritual poison.
When they surface, and they will, our course is to let
them pass with little notice, like a small wave lapping our feet at the water’s
edge. We do not under any circumstance dwell on them or engage others in
conversation regarding them for if we do, what may have begun as a seemingly
benign chat or musing will quickly devolve into morbid reflection, pulling us
out of the moment and into a destructive depressive contemplation of the past. To
be clear: we can all profit from our experiences and “We do not regret the past
nor wish to shut the door on it” but we must avoid will all due diligence engaging
in “what if” fantasy contemplations of the past for there is nothing beneficial
to be found there.
So, when we find we have drifted into "what
if" thinking, we pause, and thank the Miraculous for all we have learned,
products of our long schooling, our scars well-earned and convicted in the
knowledge that our life is exactly as it should be in this moment, by the
choices and decisions we have made which prepare us for the life lessons to
come, standing ready to assist all who wish to profit from our experience.
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