In the second act of my life I made
my living as a building contractor. One of the lessons the man who sponsored me
to become a contractor imparted was “When the workday is over stop working.” At
the time this seemed pretty simple, if not downright painfully obvious. Kinda
like never poke a lion in the eye. In time, however, I began to understand what
he was really talking about. Working in construction there is always some
little task that needs doing. I learned, through painful experience, once I
stopped working for the day, having removed my tool belt and bags, not to put
them back on. On more than one occasion, unfortunately, I spied a crooked nail,
loose board or some other small task which could have easily waited until the
next day, choosing instead to address it before going home. Right after the
hammer slipped and smacked me on the shin or I hit the nail and heard the
unmistakable sound of water hissing from a pierced pipe or missed the nail on
the wall, hitting my thumbnail instead, I would then remember, belatedly, his
words.
In time though the deeper meaning
behind this admonition began to dawn on me. Most days long after I had
physically left the job site I was still there in my mind, needlessly rehashing
the days’ events or worrying about things I had no control over. Emmet Fox
refers to this as “taking the train” mentally. Dr Fox taught, “don’t take the
train mentally-let the engine take it" most of the things in my life that
I have worried about never came to pass, and I bet yours as well, so
"letting the engine take it" today means I let go of manufactured worries,
morbid reflection if you like, avoiding needless mental wear and tear and “when
the workday is over stop working." Oh, and I never poke lions in the
eye, that would be foolish, just sayin.
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