To ride the Pale Horse means we have succumbed to addiction. Drugs, alcohol and gambling are obvious, but what of the individual who is addicted to exercise or work or sex? The gym, running/biking trails or the office can become an escape from the world just as powerful as any intoxicant and equally spiritually destructive. The difference being the alcoholic/addict has a difficult time “fitting” into polite society while the workaholic is often praised for their accomplishments, even as the other areas of their life and living are sacrificed in the name of success or “providing” for the family. The same family they are never present for, the estranged children seeking acknowledgment, often by acting out, the neglected spouse who ultimately files for divorce, resulting in the workaholic’s lament: don’t they see I am doing it all for them?
Physical activity and exercise in moderation is always a good idea, but when it crosses over into narcissism, it becomes as sure a block to growth as any drink or drug. Sex is part of our nature, so it cannot be bad, yet the stories of lives and families ruined from unchecked sexual desires are legion. The problems come when sex and obtaining sex becomes the singular focus, living only for sensual escape, having lost sight of the true purpose, that of two people sharing the most intimate of experiences, the touching of two souls in embrace, a shared act of love. To be clear: hard work, the occasional cocktail or glass of wine or enjoying sex with a partner are not the problem, we ride the Pale Horse when these things become the dominate force in our lives causing us to eschew honest relationships or facing personal truths, both secular and spiritual because they have taken over and we become consumed in self.
© Vincent Lee Jones Living In Spirit
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The Secret, Wayne Dyer, Serenity,
Enlightenment, Zen, Emmet Fox, How To Be Happy, Golden Key, Pope Francis,
Chopra, Jesus, Einstein, AA, McRaven, Healing Path
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