Left to our own devices, changing our nature or perhaps more
accurately growing beyond it, is problematic. Consider the smoker who
decides to quit, yet keeps a pack of cigarettes handy just in case the
craving becomes too great or the alcoholic who swears off but continues
to frequent their favorite watering hole because that is where their
“friends” are. Now I am sure someone has quit smoking, drugs or drinking in
this manner, but it is clear that this path is fraught with impediments
to success and more smoking, drug abuse and drinking is usually the outcome. Why do
something hard like riding out cravings when relief is a match, drink, pill, line, toke, fix, etc
away, and life can feel pretty dreary, especially when all our
“friends” are having a “good” time.
This type of thinking, though most egregious in someone who suffers from addiction,
touches virtually everyone. Consider the diets, the exercise pledges or
any vow made that was sabotaged by that "deserved" treat, feeling too
tired to exercise, choosing to be overwhelmed by the changes the
new path requires instead of sticking to them until they become habit.
Just like the addict or alcoholic, we meant it when we vowed to
change, but quickly drifted back into the familiar, comfortable well
trod modes of thinking and living which preceded that vow to change in
the first place!
No person
or circumstance can force anyone to permanently change from without. The
desire to change must come from within, and it must be desired with
fervor. We hold the key to freedom, yet so many desire change, yet sabotage themselves from the start.
Simple but not easy, a price must be paid, and that price is the surrendering of self. We must be willing to go to any
lengths to embrace a new way of living if we truly wish to change, to
grow in spirituality, our have our consciousness raised. Living on the Spiritual
Basis, practicing a new set of values and principles we will be set free, free of the bondage of self,
free of destructive thinking and actions; our essential nature changed, our consciousness raised, altered, in truth, for all
eternity.
© Vincent Lee Jones Living In Spirit
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Wayne Dyer, Recovery, Addiction, Zen, Emmet Fox, Opioids, Four Agreements,
Chopra, Heroin, Einstein, AA, Healing Path, Law Of Attraction
