Mourning to excess is destructive. Many have stopped living
themselves when a loved one has passed, literally hoping for their own
end so they can “join” with them on the “other side.” When we have
committed ourselves to living on the Spiritual Basis, death and all
suffering come into true focus. Nothing truly dies. The flesh will
fail for this is the nature of flesh, but the spark of the Divine; the
ineffable power at the heart of
everything that stands outside of
time and our synthetic understanding of the universe, was never born
and can never die. Mourn those who have passed beyond our limited sight
by celebrating their life, this lesson learned, comforted in the
knowledge of their translation from flesh back to true self,
unbound and unencumbered by physical limitations.
Death provides a clear ending point, but what of the sneaky
things we mourn? Lamenting lost or missed opportunities, those “if I
only would have” moments when we fantasize what our lives would have
been like if we had acted or chosen differently. “If I was only (fill in
the blank) years younger“, “If I didn’t have kids” (this doesn’t mean
we don’t love our children or in any way wish they were gone). “What if”
moments, we all have them, so when they come, let them pass with little
notice, like a small wave lapping our feet at the waters edge. Do not
under any circumstance comment out loud or engage in conversation
regarding them. For if we do, what began as a seemingly benign chat will
devolve into morbid reflection, pulling us out of the moment and into a
destructive contemplation of the past. Profit from your experiences,
use them as teaching instruments for you and more importantly others,
but do not dwell on them, for any reason. “We do not regret the past nor
wish to shut the door on it” for one of life’s great truths is that
“Pain is the only instrument sharp enough to cut away the excess of self.”
© Vincent Lee Jones Living In Spirit All Rights Reserved
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